AUGUST 12, 2013
Hello
my wonderful family and friends,
It
never ceases to amaze me how fast time flies by. I literally feel like I wrote
you all yesterday. I don't know how this happens I really don't. We have had a
busy week though and quite a stressful one at that. We just had so many things
to do. Here is a list.
1.
Our washing machine broke so we had to go over to the Bensons to fix it. And
call the guy to come over and fix it as well.
2.
District meeting and Puppet show. The senior couple here the Bensons wanted to
put on a show for younger kids about smoking and being healthy (showering,
washing food, other things) And so we had to practice it. We do a puppet show
and the kids have loved it so far. It's really becoming successful.
Just
so you know I have seen kids smoke here at the age of like 10. So it's really
good that they are trying this.
3.
Lessons with our investigators (bine inteles) we were actually going to have a
drop lesson this week but that changed. Will have to tell you why in a later
paragraph about that beautiful lesson. We also got bunged a lot this week and I
mean A LOT.
4.
A member from Alexandria... don't know if I am spelling that right... anyways
came into town for a job interview and she needed help getting there so we
helped her around town. Turns out she wants to go on a mission and really wants
this job so she can live in Bucharest. Because we are there SISTERS and she
wants to do splits with us and learn more about missionary work. SUPER COOL! We
really like her and we pray she gets the job ;)
5. I PICKED
UP MY NEW COMPANION!
Sora Irina
Letinu! She is adorable and I already just love her to pieces seriously!
6.
We have started a new area of trying to obtain new investigators and people to
just come to the church. SPORTS NIGHT. We have tried to introduce American
Football here and we played volleyball, battmittion... how do you spell that?
basketball... and other cardgames for those that just want to hang out. It was
really successful and fun and we are hoping this Wednesday will be the same :)
7.
Well and then Sora Letinu and I are basically starting from scratch. It's like
we opened a new area for Bucharest. And we aren't starting off with any
investigators because the ones we are teaching before are the other sisters.
Gosh super crazy. So now we contact... tot timpul. And ya'll know how much I
just love contacting :)
So
yeah it was a busy week for us. Not to mention that Sora Stapley and Sora
Gerhartz were in Arad for exchanges so it was just me and Sora Letinu dealing
with the big things in Bucharest. :)
First
I think I will talk about our wonderful lesson we had and then a lesson that
wasn't well my favorite...
So Adina. I believe I have talked about her before and her
husband Stuart. We went in preparing for a drop lesson because she hasn't kept
any of her commitments and these lessons were now becoming more for her husband
who was a less active. And so we went in and if she hasn't kept this last
commitment we were going to move on and just kinda teach Stuart. So we go in
and I had just been praying that she would hav read the chapter that's really
what I wanted. Because she is so wonderful she just wasn't progressing. And
well she hasn't read but her husband read. I was so MAD. I am not kidding. I
don't think I have ever felt just so dissapointed and mad in a lesson before.
But I was just so angry. And I didn't know what to say and what I probably
would have said if it wasn't for my companions is that I am not here for
myself. I am here for her to help her and she doesn't even see how much she
could have and what she would have if she would just keep her dang commitments.
AND JUST TRY! But I didn't. And we started talking about Alma 32 again. About a
seed being planted. And I wasn't saying much because I didn't want to offend
her and I didn't want her to be out of the church for ever ya know especially
since her husband is trying to come back to church. So I thought about
everything and really just tried to follow the spirit. I had an impression to
ask a question, a very bold question that would let us know exactly what she
wanted to do. To continue or not or about what she is thinking really. And as
some of you know I'm not very subtle about things. And my question was,"Do
you have a desire to learn more about this gospel of Jesus Christ." Now I
know my companions were worried about this because... well they already know I
am super loud and I say things that come to my head... But it was absolutely
perfect. And I am just glad that this question was purely given to me by the
spirit. Because she paused and thought about it for a while. Her response was
this (of course I am paraphrasing) "I want my children to grow up with
good standards and morals and I see this in the church. I don't know if I want
this in my life right now. But I want it for my future family and for my kids.
I want to raise my children in this church. Because I see that it's good and I
see the kids in the church and how they are. I want that for my future kids..."
Now how interesting was this that she would say this and that opened up a whole
new discussion because we were finally able to see and understand that even
though she doesn't understand fully the importance of what we are teaching and
why she needs it in her life. She sees that it is good... and it will help her
kids... and her future family. And we knew that she will someday see how
important and see how it can personally help her. We are going to meet with her
once more with her husband before he goes off to America and we are hoping we
will meet with her again after that. We are also going to meet with her parents
tomorrow so HOORAY! We believe that they are curious about what we teach and
what we do so it'll be a great thing tomorrow!
Now
about my wonderful Companion! I have said very little about her and really
because I didn't know much about her! But she is so great. Not even
exaggerating she has such a desire to learn and to grow. At first I wasn't
really sure what I was doing to be honest. I was told because she already knew
the language I really wouldn't be training... but oh gosh was I wrong. So
completely completely wrong. I am training and more. She does know the language
which is great :) but she didn't know what a missionary was really. And all the
things we put into it. How we study and prepare... how we teach... how we plan
and what we reallly do. And so I have had to teach her all of this... also it's
kinda hard because I have to explain it all in Romanian. But hey my Romanian is
getting a WHOLE LOT BETTER. I have been asking Heavenly Father to bless me with
the gift of tongues and now He is. My understanding has sky rocketed and I am
able to express myself better. Anyways back to my companion. I have really been
praying that I would be able to help her in any way that she needs because she
really wants to go on a mission. She speaks Spanish like a boss too fyi. And so
we have focused so much on the lessons and things in PMG (preach my gospel) and
she just gets excited everyday for companionship study and other studies. It's
so cute. And she told me she's really grateful because she is learning a lot. I
feel like I really am so blessed because I am learning A TON! I have to take
lead on everything and I feel like Heavenly Father is training me again :) It's
great I love it. She isn't a huge fan of contacting and I am not either but
because... we are kinda opening a section of Buch.. not really but we don't
have any investigators because we are starting brand new we have to contact. So
we do role plays a lot to get her to feel more comfortable. And well I am
getting into the contacting thing. It's getting easier and easier. Which I am
also really grateful for.
My companion though is fantastic she is so loving and a very determined person.
She is a little shy and quiet but when it's just me and her we laugh all the
time. And she will tell me jokes in romanian that I don't really
understand yet. She has told me all about her family and the church and her
conversion story. She is such a powerful member. She has wanted to go on a
mission for a while but because of weight issues she hasn't. But she will be
getting her call really soon and then she just has to loose 5 more kilos and
then President can set her apart.
She bears testimony like a boss and is so open with the gospel. The spirit just
radiats off of her. She will do great things wherever she goes. I am so excited
for her. And I really have just been praying that I will be able to help her to
become a good missionary. :) She will have so much success.
A
few other things that have gone on this week. We went paintballing... I didn't
get hit hooray! I was sweating like a pig it was super hot. Sora Gerhartz was
the star of that day as we were playing President. (President has no gun and has
3 guards who have guns and they basically just protect the president and he has
to cross to the other side of the arena...) Anyways Sora Gerhartz like a boss
basically crosses over and kills two guards who by the way are WAY BIGGER THEN
HER! She is like 5"1' if that and they are way over 6 feet. Anyways she
crosses over and sacrificed herself to take out the guards. It was great. She
got some bad bruises from it though that made it hard for her to walk around
the next day.
We gave the lesson in Relief Society about missionary work. For some reason
this branch really is just kinda a stick in the mud when it comes to missionary
work. And that makes it so much harder for us. Our investigators really aren't
involved with the members and the one time we had a member they fought... ughhh
it's extremely frustrating. Especially since I don't know these members well
enough. A sweet sister approached me this week though and told me that she has
a son living in Henderson. That's not the first time someone has told me they
have a romanian relative living in vegas. How interesting is that???
We
went Chalk Contacting on Sunday! It was so much fun and exhausting. There is
this HUGE park and Sora Stapley and I drew a book of mormon and a bible and
wrote down some questions and verses. It was so fascinating as people
approached us and asked us why we did this. We were told later that we didn't
have voie to draw with chalk... I guess they have been changing rules
there.
I
am super excited for the new movie in the temple! HOW COOL IS THAT! I really
miss the temple. So be grateful you get to go :) Remember what a blessing it
is! I am also really excited to hear about all of the changes and exciting
efforts of missionary work that is going on at home. I had been thinking about
this a lot actually. Because I wasn't really a good example at all when it came
to missionary work back home. And I felt really bad about it to see what I
could have done to have been better and have helped out the missionaries even
more. And our ward is small. And we are all kind of the same people I havent
really seen a lot of changes that have happened unless a new person or family
moves into the ward. But when I hear about how it's starting to happen more at
home with missionary work. I really just want to cry because it's so important.
So important that as members we do our jobs and help out missionaries as much
as possible. Even though life gets in the way and we have jobs and work and
families. Just the happiness that we have if we share the gospel and you see
someone have that light and life in them. A whole new meaning a whole new
lifestyle. It brings so much happiness into my life. And I think our ward would
be a whole lot happier if we really focused on missionary work and really
really really concentrated our efforts to bring souls unto christ. That's all
of our duties as members.
Sorry I'll get off my soap box now. :) Sorry it's such a long letter. I just
have so much to say and tell and gosh I just love everything that's happening
here. All the new experiences and things that I Get to learn. I AM SO LUCKY! SO
SO SO LUCKY AND SO BLESSED!
Love you all!
Sora Jenna Stewart